Drifting from the Father’s Love

Drifting from the Father’s Love

In Luke 15, a conflict is about to bust out between Jesus and the Pharisees and scribes. Jesus is becoming popular – too popular – and with all the wrong kinds of people.

“Now the tax collectors and sinners were all drawing near to hear Him, “Luke tells us, “And the Pharisees and the scribes grumbled, saying, ‘This man receives sinners and eats with them’” (Luke 15:1-2).

Jesus could have handled this any one of dozens of ways. (Rebuke, anger, bringing down fire from the heavens were all strong possibilities, no?) But Jesus decided to answer their contentions with delicate mercy, with compassion. He told them a story – three stories actually – that all led to the same conclusion. God is love and God loves to seek out lost things.

Three Parables of Lost Things

First, Jesus told a parable about a man who had a hundred sheep and lost one and left the ninety-nine in the open country to go after the one that was lost. He told of the joy the man had when he found the lost sheep, laying it upon his shoulders and rejoicing. Furthermore, when he arrived back home, he called together all his “friends and his neighbors, saying to them, ‘Rejoice with me, for I have found my sheep that was lost.’” Jesus made sure they understood the point of the parable: “Just so, I tell you, there will be more joy in heaven over one sinner who repents than over ninety-nine righteous persons who need no repentance” (Luke 15:3-7).

Then He told a second story, one about a lost coin. A woman had ten silver coins, but lost one. She lit a lamp, and swept the house to find it. When she did, she called together her friends and neighbors, saying, ‘Rejoice with me, for I have found the coin that I had lost.’ Again, Jesus made sure his opponents wouldn’t miss the point: “Just so, I tell you,” He said, “there is joy before the angels of God over one sinner who repents” (Luke 15:8-10).

Finally, He told them the story of a lost son – a prodigal son. The younger of two brothers asks his father for his inheritance early. With it, he “gathered all he had and took a journey into a far country, and there he squandered his property in reckless living. And when he had spent everything, a severe famine arose in that country, and he began to be in need. So, he went and hired himself out to one of the citizens of that country, who sent him into his fields to feed pigs. And he was longing to be fed with the pods that the pigs ate, and no one gave him anything.” Eventually, he came to a change of heart. He says, “I will arise and go to my father, and I will say to him, ‘Father, I have sinned against heaven and before you. I am no longer worthy to be called your son. Treat me as one of your hired servants.’” But when he returns he finds a father who receives him as the son he always was. His father saw him and felt compassion and ran and embraced him and kissed him. Furthermore, he commanded his servants to fetch the best robe and to put it on him, to put a ring on his hand and shoes on his feet, and to bring the fattened calf for a celebration. “My son was dead,” he said, “and is alive again; he was lost, and is found.” Jesus simply says, “They began to celebrate” (Luke 15:11-24).

 Coming Home

 At some time in our lives all Christians drift. We lose sight of what God has done for us. We forget how much He loves us. We forget what we’ve been rescued from.

Perhaps we begin to believe the world’s lies, lies that tell us we can somehow find a lasting happiness outside of a walk with God. And, sometimes, this spiritual drift becomes a wandering. Sometimes we are away from the Father’s house for months or even years.

While I disagree with many of Christian writer Kent Roberts’ theological positions, he’s written a compelling description of the journey back from the pigpen:

Maybe we wake up, and maybe we find ourselves with a case of amnesia. Confused and alone. In a pig’s sty of all places. Surrounded by slop. Dirty. Aching. Scared. Hungry. Looking even at the cobs the pigs eat and wishing we could somehow fill our own bellies.

Then, we look up, across the waters, to see a small town on the other shore. Somewhere, in the back of our minds, we recognize that place. We don’t know how, we don’t know why, but somehow, we just know; that village is “home.”

Maybe it’s because we feel a tug, a yearning in our chest, in our hearts and deeper still. Urging us on. Pulling us toward that place. To “home” …

[F]or those of us who do rise—those who see hope in the distance and let it live—we will round the waters of the vast lake and, eventually, reach the horizon, unsure of what we will say or even who will greet us. We will prepare our speeches, our prayers of forgiveness and penance, chanting them over and over again, trying to hold the guilt and fear at bay until our throat is raw and our mind aches.

Then, we see a figure cresting the horizon, rushing toward us, arms outstretched. Are they friend or enemy? Are we the enemy? Will we be allowed to say our prayers? Will they be heard? Will our penance be enough?

Before we can even decide, the figure descends, wrapping us in His arms.

Fear grips us and yet…His grip is stronger. His delight is clear. His laughter rings in our ears. His tears of joy stream down His cheeks and onto our bare, dirt-caked shoulder. He calls us “son”, and “daughter.” He takes us by the hand and leads us inside. He says we are honored guests. In fact, He orders a feast in our honor. He calls us “son, and “daughter.”

Is this our Father? No, it can’t be: To dare and dream that we come from such splendor, such joy, such warmth? No. We came from the muck and mire of a pig’s sty. We know nothing more.

We believe we are filth and yet He calls us royalty. We believe we are alone and yet He calls us family. He insists, we are “son”; we are “daughter.” And we are welcome. We are honored. We are family …

It is this image, this warm and forgiving image of the Father’s love, that the enemy longs to keep hidden from our eyes. Whenever we wander from the Father’s house we pay the costliest of all prices: We lose time with Him that we can never get back!

So, be careful of spiritual drift. It will rob us of life’s most precious gift.

To consider:

  • Are you drifting?

Is your walk with Jesus closer, more intimate, than it was a year ago today?

Is something distracting you from the spiritual priorities found in God’s Word?

Are you, like Martha in the biblical story, too busy ‘doing’ to hear what Jesus is saying? (See Luke 10:38-42)

Have you lost fervency for the things of God since the time you were first saved? What’s changed? What was different then? How might you recapture that fire?

  • With respect to spiritual drifting, its usually not one single cataclysmic event that rocks us off course, but a hundred small decisions – little foxes nibbling at the vine.

What little things might be subtly nudging you off course.

Are you neglecting prayer? Devotional time? Fellowship with other believers? Times of regular worship? Opportunities to serve others in Jesus’ name?

  • Have you lost sight of the Father’s love for you?

Do you see Him reaching for you? Searching for you when your lost?

Why do you think each of the three Luke 15 parables mentions the joy and celebration that accompanies the lost thing being reunited with the one searching for it?

And why do you think in all three stories there is a public, communal celebration when that which is lost is found?

  • Is there something you need to speak with Jesus about today?


  1. “And men go abroad to admire the heights of mountains, the mighty waves of the sea, the broad tides of rivers, the compass of the ocean, and the circuits of the stars, yet pass over the mystery of themselves without a thought.”

    ― Augustine of Hippo, Confessions

    “Our Hearts are Restless Until They Rest in You”
    From the Confessions
    Saint Augustine of Hippo

    There is an old song that I love sing because it testifies to my experience
    ‘Now none but Christ can satisfy’

    v3 I tried the broken cistern, Lord,
    but, ah, the waters failed!
    e’vn as I stooped to drink they fled,
    and mocked me as I wailed.

    what a great message of reconciliation of recalibration of re-alignment
    truly, truly, that is the gospel, the good news. to bring humanity back into
    God’s original intention and unchanging undeterred un-waving eternal purpose of
    the unfolding redemption of our God for humanity, who He created for Himself.

    Now none but Christ can satisfy no other name for me!…

  2. Kathryn Boisvert : August 6, 2018 at 12:55 pm

    This says it all!

    From the album I Choose Jesus
    I have searched to find
    The meaning of this life
    Something that would
    Fill my empty soul

    Some believe a lie
    Choose darkness over light
    But I will stand and let
    The whole world know

    I choose Jesus
    I choose Jesus
    The One who first chose me

    I stand unashamed
    Trusting in one name
    ‘Cause I have seen the cross
    And I believe

    This choice comes at cost
    All other things are lost
    No other love could
    Mean so much to me

    I choose Jesus
    I choose Jesus
    For now and eternity

    He chose to love me
    When I felt unlovable
    He chose to reach me
    When I felt unreachable
    He carried me out
    Of my fear and doubt
    How I want the world to know
    I choose Jesus

    I choose Jesus
    I choose Jesus
    The One who first chose me
    (I don’t want anyone but You)

    My Jesus
    I choose Jesus
    For now and eternity
    For now and eternity

  3. Kerin Medeiros : August 7, 2018 at 6:11 pm

    That fact of all 3 stories concluding with a public celebration is something I never paid attention to before, but the implications are weighty. Both my protracted affair with sin and my turning from it in repentance have effects upon the community I inhabit. Am I poisoning others’drinking water or making it sweeter? Scriptural truth incites my spirit to persevere, not only for my Lord and myself but also my brethren. When we stand before the bema, we’ll never be sorry for running to Him who IS our life.

  4. Do you hear his song calling you over the water?

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